A friendly reminder that one of our key rules of commenting here is: No one can be made to feel bad for their choices. Not when it comes to decorating, at least.
99.95% of all the comments on Retro Renovation are wonderful — our community is awesome! But, I was prompted to repeat this occasional reminder — (and there’s a new twist, keep reading) — because there were a few comments lately that I had to delete altogether, or to edit because of the use of unkind words such as h******, u***, h*** and d****.
In a new twist, I have also begun to notice more frequent comments — almost always from first-time commenters — that are either raving about a product or more likely, expressing complaint. Some of these have smelled funny. Since these kinds of comments can be prone to fraud, please know that from now on, I will likely not approve them unless they come from longtime, known commenters (Note, I also try, in the cases of complaints, to give the company the opportunity to respond.)
This blog is a happy creation. The aim is to be supportive. Respectful. Whatever you put your energy toward — grows. So, continuing and with even more decisive rigor moving forward, I will likely delete such comments tout suit, in order to conserve and keep the positive energy radiating. Read the Terms of Use for other various usage requirements of this blog. Thank you for your understanding and continuing, super-constructive support. xoxo, pam. Image above: Original collage by the famous Anne Taintor herself — see more here.
Kim Campbell says
I love this place because I love mid century. I just have a hard time thinking someone would say such and such was u***. Typing it is like saying it to someone’s face, 🙁
I have been a blogger and reader of various blogs for a long time. I always have a hard time when someone bashes another on a blog. Variety is the spice of life and what makes the world go around (to be cheesy!)!!!
Leila says
The best part about this site is I can’t believe there are actually other people out there like me, who love all things vintage. I was obviously born too late! I’m the only one I know around here who dreams about buying a house that has been untouched since the 50s. This lifelong obsession somehow makes me feel different, perhaps at times a little freakish? Finally, this site allows me to babble on and on about things I love with others who love them too. It’s a thrill.
Lisa Compo says
Uh oh..I’m awaiting moderation. Sorry my comment was so long, I know I write too much sometimes.
Kate says
Its ok Lisa — I set your comment free!
Lisa Compo says
I got turned onto this site about a year ago from a facebook friend and have been addicted to it ever since. I really feel like something is missing from my day if I don’t have time to get on and read today’s feature. I have always found everyone to be very friendly and welcoming. Naturally, people are going to have their differences in what they like and dislike but I always try to appreciate those things because you know somewhere out there that item is making someone very happy.
I do have a question about a common theme though, and I guess today is a good time to ask because it has already come up. Why is there such a general rule about carpet in a bathroom being a No-No? My hubby prefers to use the other bathroom, so there is no issue with “stray tinkles”, but when we got carpet for this house I had to tell the carpet layers like 4 times that yes I did want the bathroom carpeted. It’s laid in a fashion that it can be easily taken up if desired, but I just love it. It’s warm on your feet in the winter, it’s easy on the knees when you have to scrub the tub or give the dog a bath, it’s not slippery if you have to hop out of the shower with wet feet. I have a bathmat next to the shower so it doesn’t get wet. But I have had 7 back surgeries and have fallen in there many times getting in and out of the tub or lost my balance because of my bad leg etc…and boy was I glad it was a soft landing. Most people have tile but then have to put those little throw rugs down. I just wondered, aside from a cleanliness issue, why it’s so bad to have carpet in the bathroom?
I also stand alone thinking it’s nice in the kitchen, too. It’s easy on your legs and back, not slick from water droplets and if you accidentally drop a piece of glassware it just bounces and doesn’t break. We are clean cooks without children so maybe that helps, but I love my 5×8 area rugs placed over the vinyl.
I’d like to know why I seem to stand alone in the world liking these things. I’m sure when we build the new house it will be a challenge again convincing people that I really want pink carpet in my pink bathroom. 🙂
pam kueber says
Of course there are no rules! I think that carpet in the bathroom and kitchen got a “bad name” because folks have seen too examples of the surface getting dirty. I agree: Carpet is wonderful for day-to-day livability — if you are willing to make the trade-off of maintenance! See this story I did last year — the history of wall-to-wall carpet –> https://retrorenovation.com/2012/01/16/wall-to-wall-carpeting-history-from-the-1950s-to-today-an-exclusive-interview-with-emily-morrow-shaw-floors/
Marta says
Many people don’t realize that the carpet usually put down in bathrooms during the 60’s and 70’s was made from the same stuff as bathroom throw rugs. When it got too dirty or suffered from ‘toilet regurgitation’, you just pulled it up and tossed it in the washer. Carpet tape was so robust then, you could just stick the carpet back down when it was dry. Rarely did you need to replace the tape.
I have fond and lustful memories of the pink bathroom at a friend’s house during my teens. Pink plush carpet, pink fixtures, silver wallpaper with outlines of pink cherubs, pink beads hanging in place of a shower curtain (no shower in tub). It was so beautiful.
tammyCA says
I think if anyone ever had a toilet overflow and had carpet then that is why. I’ll admit that I fantasize too about a pink fluffy carpeted pink vintage bathroom…but, I guess that will stay a fantasy.
joan says
Pam;
I really believe that your site and others similar are part of the reason we are now seeing reproductions of mid-century furniture etc. Even commercials have caught on. I just saw one where a little boy comes out of a MC house pulling a MC wagon passes a MC car… 🙂
Joan
Roseann says
Pam I can’t imagine why someone would make negative or harsh comments. If they are Retro fans they had to seek you out therefore, I would think have the same esthetic. That said I have purchased some of your Ebay finds, bought from retailers you have featured and found MCM items I didn’t know existed and am now hunting them down online.
Thanks for the inspiration!
Janet says
I wouldn’t have had a clue where to begin when decorating our “new-to-us, outd**** to-everyone-else” brick ranch house this year without your site, and reading the positive and upbeat comments from all of the people who love the same things I do really kept my spirits up! You’re all just awesome, and it’s been especially helpful during times like when no matter how hard I tried I could NOT find a mid-century dining room table at a price I could afford, so for a couple of months we ate our meals sitting in nylon folding chairs. Or when everyone I showed our house to immediately blurted out questions like, “Oh! Are you going to update that bright blue bathroom first, or the green one?” I love the site, love the ideas, love the 200 daily picks and I really, truly love the comments and the people who post them. Thank you to Pam & Kate for this wonderful site!
Kate says
Aww you are very welcome Janet! Your comment just made my day. 🙂
Megan in Ohio says
I guess now is a good time for me to make my first comment. Thanks for clarifying and being consistent with keeping nastiness off your blog. I’ve got family of 5 in a true 995 square foot midcentury modest house, and keep frequenting your page for advice and ideas on how to make the most of what we’ve got and how I can save our red kitchen linoleum. Perhaps I should post some photos? Anyways, I wanted to introduce myself since I’m always reading, good job!
pam kueber says
Thank you and welcome out of lurking! If you would like to send photos, fill out the Contact box (link at the very bottom in the footer) and we will see what we can tell you!
Dianna says
While I don’t comment a lot, I do enjoy reading this blog for all of the reasons already stated. I don’t have my own house yet, so I love coming here and vicariously living through all of you. I also get ideas for little things I can do around my apartment to give it more of an MCM feel. Thanks Pam and Kate for all you do!!
Alice says
I love this blog! Thank you for all your passion and hard work keeping it a comfortable place to come.
Nina462 says
Ditto! Much love from my MCM ranch to yours! My Motto: There’s always something for which to be thankful….Charles Dickens.